Saturday, February 10, 2007
The Bubble
So after further review, I've determined that I date girls that are outside of the bubble. To further illustrate, the girls inside the bubble are the ones that I should be dating in which I subsequently don't. The girls that I let myself like are on the outside. For example, Lindsey was totally outside the bubble. She was a good experience for me to date and to learn but at the end of the day no way in hell I would have or could have married her. She text messaged me today by the way. Bomb Shaker, outside the bubble. I'm getting good at tricking myself though. She's accomplished, smart, etc., but again at the end of the day she has a plate that is overflowing and has no room for me on it. Well, room to have a nice normal relationship anyway. So in the future I'm going to try to give those girls inside of the bubble a chance. No savior complex or fix it complex is going to get in the way. I probably won't know what to do, but do I ever? Nope.
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Jay--
You hit that one on the head. I feel that that is my problem as well.
But at least you have identified the problem, right?
Recognition is the first step
How sweet of cliff to think YOU recognized the problem :).
Just teasing....I agree with him 100% which is why i will continue to make my NAGGING commentary in response to your fleeting love towards everyone!
Recognition is the first step but the second step is the hardest. It's like a path that ends....What do I do next? I would say trying to find someone inside the bubble. I guess I recognize it when I bumb up against it.
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